My boyfriend always gets annoyed whenever I say I don’t believe things are made to last or that there is no such thing as true love. Don’t get me wrong, I love him to death but that still doesn’t change my opinions due to good reasoning which I shall explain!
Things aren’t made to last
They aren’t. Simple as, this is true for everything including the universe. People die, they don’t live forever. Relationships you thought were perfect end due to unfortunate circumstances, and my biggest reason, the universe hasn’t been built to last. Every star burns out eventually, and at some point the universe is going to be dark and there aren’t going to be any stars left in the sky or in any corner or space.. I don’t see a problem with that though, I find it quite romantic. It just means you have to appreciate here and now and be grateful for each day and be happy that you have the people you do in that time. I think its just very humbling.
True love doesn’t exist
I Just can’t let myself believe it does. You can fall in love with many different people at many different points in your life, there’s not just one person you can be happy with. If true love did exist then love would be enough for all relationships to work out, but that’s not the case. Life gets in the way a lot of the times, just because you love each other doesn’t mean you should be together. I just see love as happiness between two people where you can be completely comfortable with them and just enjoy each other. I get that you can fall in love and what have you, but I don’t think there’s supposedly just one person in life for you, there’s probably several who would fit the bill but you shouldn’t want to find them or anything if you’re truly happy with the person your with. Fact of the matter is, love just sometimes isn’t enough, so how can there be true love if this is the case?
I’m sure plenty of people will disagree but they’re just my views based on the facts. That doesn’t mean I’m not in love and happy though!